Course Overview

Designed for Parents and Mental Health Professionals.

This introductory course provides the foundations of Dr. Joanne Dolhanty’s EFST® for Parents. Participants learn a practical, evidence-based approach that helps parents navigate both their own emotions and their child’s emotional experiences, strengthen motivation for change, and transform relationships within the family.

EFST® equips parents with simple yet powerful skills that foster emotional connection, resilience, and healing. Through learning to understand and respond effectively to emotions, parents become better positioned to support their child through mental health challenges and life’s difficulties.

EFST® is backed by a growing body of research demonstrating its effectiveness. Studies show that even this foundational course can create meaningful and lasting change for both parents and children.

In one large randomized clinical trial, only the parents attended the EFST® course; the children experiencing mental health difficulties received no direct intervention. Children were assessed before the course, after the course, and again at follow-up. Despite not participating themselves, the children showed significant improvements in their mental health and well-being. Most remarkably, at the 12-month follow-up, many no longer required mental health treatment.

These findings highlight a central principle of EFST®: when parents are empowered with the right emotional skills, they can become a powerful force for change in their child’s recovery and well-being.

$199 USD

Includes 365 days of access

WHO SHOULD TAKE THIS COURSE

PARENTS:

This course will be relevant to parents who have a loved one of any age (young child, adolescent or adult child) suffering from a mental health or physical health problem, or other problems such as social or educational struggles.

Parents who register for this course are strongly encouraged to be followed by a clinician.

PROFESSIONALS:

This course will be relevant to mental health professionals who are interested in the role parents can play in supporting their young, teen, or adult child.

This is the first course in EFST-P training for professionals to experience how the core program is delivered to parents.

Mental health professionals may recommend this course to parents as an introduction or supplement to their ongoing work together.

Learning Objectives

For Parents & Professionals
  • Learn the content of the EFST® program for parents
  • Start to learn the basics of the EFST® model of change 
  • Start to build your “emotion self-efficacy”
  • Understand your competing motivation not to change 
  • Enhance your intrinsic motivation to change 
  • Reduce your self-blame
  • Learn to attend to “emotion data” in others (including your child)
  • Learn to attend to “emotion data” in others (including your child) using the research-backed tools of effective validation, motivation, apology, and boundaries

Additional Goals and Learning Objectives for Professionals

Professionals will complete this course as the first step in learning how to facilitate EFST® programming with parents. In addition to the above goals and objectives, they will observe and experience:

  • The core program as delivered to parents
  • The style of presenting this material to parents
  • How we work to make parents feel validated to reduce their self-blame
  • How we validate the competing motivation not to change 
  • How we work to enhance intrinsic motivation for change rather than urge towards change
  • How we embody the EFST® stance: We share emotion skills, not parenting expertise

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EFST® for Parents is an innovative and simple program that makes powerful change techniques accessible to parents.

Price : $199 USD

Course Curriculum

Unit 1 – Introduction to EFST-P
  • How motivated are you?
  • The unique qualities and challenges of parent motivation
  • Enhancing intrinsic motivation vs urging to change
  • Self-Assessment
  • Rationale for affording parents a central role in their loved one’s recovery
  • Core principles regarding parents that underlie EFST-P
  • Overview of the three modules of the core NET structure of EFST-P
  • The bridge metaphor for change
  • The role of “emotion self-efficacy” in motivation
  • Emotions 101
  • Why Emotion?
  • Learn about emotion
  • Universality of emotion
  • Emotion Basics Simplified
  • Work with emotion
  • Tool: Validation – Beginner 
  • Impact of invalidating emotion
  • The difficulty of validating
  • Hijacked
  • Feeling Traps
  • Magnets & Triggers
  • Advanced Validation
  • Competing Motivations
  • Tool: Conversation between the self and the self
  • Motivation and awareness
  • The old way of thinking about boundaries
  • Rationale for new conceptualization of boundaries
  • The new way of thinking about boundaries
  • Incoming and outgoing boundaries
  • Emotion-motivation influencing boundaries
  • Tool: Boundary PECCS
  • Assess and Address
  • Flex Your PECCS
  • Confounding boundaries and judgment
  • Tool: Apology
  • Impact of Apology – Delivering
  • More conversation between the self and the self
  • From self-blame to radical responsibility
  • Review